The Quintessential Codependent Sheds Her Patterns….slowly…

These are the writings of a girl who knows a guy not very well and who knows that she is coming to think somewhat obsessively…and wants to reflect on it and pull herself out… What a powerful pattern it is…Codependence

“What’s going to happen if I don’t talk to Gave soon? Like right now? He will get to do whatever he wants and not pay attention to my feelings, plans needs, wants.

I will not get what I want from him.

This feeling of heat and electricity tingles…zoned out and emotional…overwhelmed and paralyzed…

I think I deserve to feel like this…?! I think I am supposed to feel this? I think is is ok for me to feel that way? That is…if they don’t make me feel like that…I think that there is no connection?

Quiet and unexciting means no connection?”



About wonderfulshantelle

Journey To My Wonderful Self

Posted on March 15, 2017, in Addiction, Adult Children, Alanon, Balance, codependence, emotional abuse, emotional sobriety, health, Inner child, Outer Child, recovery, Relationship, Self-Care, Uncategorized, withdrawal. Bookmark the permalink. 3 Comments.

  1. This obsessive thought pattern resonates with my experience.

  2. Thanks for the reply, however long. I hope things have worked themselves out for you in better order since 🙂

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