My Needs Are…
My needs are legitimate.
I have the choice to not participate in meeting others needs if I have not yet met my own. Or even if I have.
My needs were not being met in my relationship.
I can meet my own needs for acceptance and love, and attention. [not sure how, but I think I can think of something.]
G’s alcoholic needs are self-serving
I feel caught…
I have needs. As I human being, I need to depend on someone. On multiple people. I have legitimate dependency needs. I have legitimate, undeniable, tangible needs. They are here and they are here to stay.
Can I look at them?
Posted on November 24, 2015, in Addiction, Adult Children, Alanon, codependence, emotional sobriety, Inner child, Outer Child, recovery, Relationship, Uncategorized, withdrawal. Bookmark the permalink. Leave a comment.