The Crux

Why do I believe them, when they say I don’t care?

Because if THEY don’t believe I care, they won’t love me.

Shantelle, I believe you care.
You are not what other people see.

Shantelle, you can do absolutely nothing about what they believe. You can not change their thoughts or feelings.
This last point does not hit home easily. The denial pops right up.

All because I don’t know where else love is.


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Journey To My Wonderful Self

Posted on January 12, 2015, in 12-step, AA, Addiction, Adult Children, Alanon, codependence, Domestic Violence, emotional abuse, emotional sobriety, Inner child, recovery, Relationship, Uncategorized, withdrawal. Bookmark the permalink. Leave a comment.

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