Practice from past mistakes
I told him that I would go out on my own when he told me he would drop Hislittle boy off to come out with me.
I told him that he could come to my place if he gave me notice, if he came when it worked for me.
I didn’t answer the phone late at night. I asked him not to call in the middle of the night during the week.
I left or asked him to leave when he called his ex names.
I asked him to move out when I started to get too anxious about him coming home drunk or being drunk when I got home in the aftn.
I did not stick around when he was doing something dishonest.
I spent time with him around my work needs. I did not work around spending time with him.
I did it drive out to his parents when I had to work. I did not drive him to pick up the kids.
I did not drive to pick him up from there place.
I did not drive him to work. Even at 4am.
I did not pick him up from work or the train station.
I did not give him a third chance to tell me the truth. I did not give him a third chance to do something right.
I did not answer the phone when I knew I wasn’t the first one he called.